Robert J. Wilson Obituary (1944 - 2023)

Born Dec 11, 1944, Robert J. Wilson attended Charles O Dickerson High School in Trumansburg, NY. View the obituary, post a memory, or share a photo about Robert J. Wilson.

Graduation Year	Class of 1962
Date of Birth	Dec 11, 1944
Date of Passing	Oct 29, 2023
About	Obituary Robert James Wilson, age 78, of Tiburon, California, passed away peacefully on August 6, 2023 surrounded by his dear friends and family. For the past year Bob showed great strength, resilience and determination in his fight against cancer. Bob was born on December 11, 1944, in Ithaca, New York. He left an indelible, authentic and inspiring footprint on our planet and in the hearts of all fortunate enough to know him. His presence was a force of nature, resonating through his booming voice, his infectious laughter and perpetual smile, and his sharp wit paired with a delightfully dry sense of humor - all made complete by his vibrant collection of Hawaiian shirts. Bob graduated from Cornell University and went on to earn a law degree from American University. Bob's time spent in Washington, DC was characterized by significant personal and professional development. Bob utilized his lunch hour to make his voice heard, often stationing himself outside Richard Nixon's offices adorned with protest signs. Unreserved in the expression of his beliefs, Bob remained steadfast to his principles. He then positioned himself at the heart of the nation and undertook a notably significant position as General Counsel for the IRS. Specializing in the intricacies of collective bargaining, Bob's expertise shone through during a turbulent epoch in the 1960s, a crucial period in US history. After 30 years with the IRS, 1999 marked Bob's retirement, a milestone celebrated with a blend of profound reverence, fondness, and moments of light-heartedness. While Bob had garnered high regard for his professionalism as a lawyer, it was his capacity as a trailblazing leader in his unwavering commitment to his colleagues that truly set him apart. Bob's bonds remained resolute, sharing a mutual admiration and deep respect with team members, which endured for more than 5 decades. Bob's lifelong and deeply cherished friendship with his best friend Tom began in the hallowed halls of American University, where their bond took root. From those early days, they embarked on a remarkable journey, working side by side at the IRS for many years before life led Bob to San Francisco. Despite the geographical distance, their friendship remained strong, unyielding to the miles that separated them. Bob and Tom were renowned for their annual trips marked by the presence of the finest single malt scotch and the aroma of premier cigars. Together, they roamed the landscapes of their favorite destinations including the iconic Joshua Tree National Park, Death Valley, Muir Woods and whale watching in Monterey Bay. Amidst the backdrop of breathtaking vistas, their laughter rang out, punctuated by spirited political debates that would stretch on for hours. This shared passion served as both a source of connection and colorful banter. Bob and Tom's intuitive understanding of each other's innermost thoughts and desires proved to strengthen their friendship. Throughout life's trials, they stood steadfastly by one another, offering sage advice and unwavering support. Their connection was a testament to the power of friendship, rooted in the joy of shared experiences, nurtured through heartfelt conversations, and sustained by an enduring bond that time and distance could not diminish. Story has it that upon his arrival in San Francisco, Bob embarked on a bike ride to the Marin Headlands. As fate would have it, he stumbled upon a peculiar scene; a collection of bathtubs enclosed by a chain link fence, harboring a group of ailing or undernourished California sea lions along with their devoted caretaker. Seizing the moment, the caretaker asked Bob if he could feed the sea lions the following day as he was unable to. Bob eagerly embraced the opportunity, oblivious to the fact that this seemingly innocuous act would mark the inception of the beguiling bond with these captivating, charming and nimble pinnipeds. Unknowingly, he had just embarked on a decade's long affiliation with the Marine Mammal Center where he helped shepherd it from chain link fences and plastic bathtubs to a world-renowned facility. Bob's role flourished from weekly volunteer to board member, his influence and enthusiasm were undeniable. In 1979, a serendipitous encounter brought Bob and his kindred spirit, a fellow photographer and intrepid explorer Bob H. together. Their meeting would mark the beginning of an enduring friendship and shared passion for capturing the world's hidden wonders. Two years later they embarked on their inaugural journey, a road trip that wove through the rugged terrain to the northernmost Canadian community of Inuvik, an enclave nestled within the Arctic Circle, and ending in Denali National Park. Fueled by wanderlust and insatiable curiosity, the duo ventured to Alaska not once but twice more. The weather challenged their resilience, marooning them amidst the tempests of the Pribilof Islands and on the remote shores of Round Island. Yet, their camaraderie only grew stronger as they weathered these storms together. Their travel diaries expanded to encompass corners of the world including the bustling streets of India, the time capsule allure of Cuba, and the mystical landscapes of Bhutan. Their journey's pinnacle was the triumphant ascent to the Tiger's Nest Monastery, precariously perched 10,000 feet above the picturesque town of Paro. Bob became part of his best friend's family, with Bob H.'s daughters affectionately referring to him as Uncle Bob. Bob had an enduring friendship with Sandy, Susan, Barbara and Kip. Their friendship was built on shared experiences including raucous dinners at their favorite Marin restaurants, mountain plays, holiday dinners and adventures at Pinecrest Lake. Bob and Barbara would spend many dinners together engaging in lively political banter or enjoying breakfast at New Morning Caf? where his bottle of Cholula hot sauce was never far. One memorable journey took Bob, Sandy, Barbara and Barbara's son Kyle to Egypt, where his incorrigible spirit and a bottle of duty-free scotch created yet another humorous moment they would share. Bob and Sandy's shared passion for marine mammals and commitment to their monthly beach walk schedule would continue for over 2 decades, despite Sandy's move for work. Sandy would then join Susan in New Mexico. Sadly, Bob's final act of love for Susan would come after her untimely passing. Bob's handling of her affairs showcased his deep compassion and loyalty as a friend. Despite the many challenges that life would bring this group of friends, their sense of love, mutual support and camaraderie only deepened with each passing year. Their enduring friendships would withstand the test of time, distance and adversity for over 40 years. Bob wholeheartedly embraced his role as father to his son, Ernie. He stood as a pillar throughout Ernie's life, offering vigorous support and valuable advice. Recognizing the significance of education, Bob encouraged and financed Ernie's pursuit of an engineering degree, understanding the impact it would have on the quality of Ernie's life. Bob maintained a close relationship with his mother and his extended family, regularly forwarding articles to them detailing his passionate involvement in his non-profit organizations. Bob took immense pride in his array of accomplishments including thought-provoking and highly technical articles on climate change which he shared with his family. Bob's insatiable curiosity led him to traverse some of the most remote and exotic landscapes alongside his dear friend Suzie. In the frigid expanses of Svalbard, om the Arctic Ocean, he exhibited boundless patience, investing hours to seize the perfect, often whimsical photograph of his beloved polar bears. Likewise, turning his dreams into reality, he found himself swimming alongside humpback whales in the turquoise waters of Tonga, always with his camera in tow, capturing the awe-inspiring moments. With no paved roads leading to Churchill, Manitoba, Canada Bob traveled by both train and plane to this town known as the "Polar Bear Capital of the World". He spent countless hours perched in a tundra buggy, high above his beloved polar bears. Bob's most treasured photographs were those capturing the tender moments between mothers and their cubs as well as their playful exchanges frolicking on the ice. Whether hidden in the Alaskan underbrush, patiently awaiting the opportune moment to immortalize grizzly bears, or immersed in the habitat of gorillas, kit foxes, penguins, and puffins. Bob's commitment to capturing that magical glint in his subject's eyes became his signature. As his mastery of photography evolved, so did his passion for the preservation of the world's wildlife. In recent years, Bob eagerly embraced videography, an art form that brought him great joy. He took pride in documenting the beauty and wonders of the natural world he held so close to his heart. Bob's commitment led him to team up with Dan Guravich in the 1980's, resulting in the formation of Polar Bears Alive, a later iteration known as Polar Bears International. Assuming the role as president, Bob's leadership and expertise in forming non-profits was invaluable, the organization flourished. His mastery of language earned him the reputation of a skilled wordsmith and was held in high regard. Bob stepped down and remained a board member a position he held for over 15 years, well into the 21st century. True to form, Bob was always involved in conservation. He remained active after retirement helping to establish the inception of the non-profit Snow Leopard Conservancy, providing guidance and financial expertise to the founders and eventually joining the Board of Directors. And his connections to the Farallon Islands led him to Greater Farallones Association, an organization devoted to supporting and protection for the Farallon Islands habitats. For over three decades, Bob selflessly dedicated his time, resources, knowledge and hear to support the Greater Farallones National Marine Sanctuary, Greater Farallones Association, and the Beach Watch program. Bob served a GFA Executive Director, GFA President, Sanctuary Advisory Council member, and Beach Watch Volunteer. He became one the first and the longest serving volunteers dedicating almost 30 years to monthly surveying "his" beach in the sanctuary. Bob's invaluable contributions were not only recognized they were celebrated, as he was named Sanctuaries Volunteer of the Year. In honor of Bob's invaluable contributions, the Board has established the Robert Wilson Sea Lion Legacy Society. The California Department of Fish and Wildlife recognized Bob's knowledge of the marine environment, conservation ethic, and negotiation skills and appointed him to serve on California's Marine Life Protection Act stakeholder working group where he was instrumental in the establishment of state marine protected areas in North-central California. Bob's dedication to the American Cetacean Society, non-profit organization the protection of the world's whales, dolphins and porpoises was unwavering. His role on the board, made a significant impact on the organizations mission, challenging them to push boundaries and achieve more. His passing will undoubtedly leave a void within the organization, his legacy of passion, wisdom and commitment will be sorely missed. For more than 3 decades, Bob's Super Bowl parties were celebrated for their boisterous revelry and unforgettable traditions. At the heart of these annual gatherings was Bob's signature Margarita fountain, a centerpiece that flowed with liquid mirth, and his signature marinated chicken. The setting was none other than Bob's cherished condo, perched majestically overlooking Richardson Bay. These gatherings were more than just parties; they were a reflection of Bob's vibrant spirit. The guest list was a testament to the rich tapestry of his life. His eclectic group of friends, representing a spectrum of backgrounds and interests, converged each year as a united cheering section, rallying for their chosen team. The potluck dishes brought by his friends were nothing short of culinary triumphs, consistently surpassing expectations. During Bob's final challenging year, he was embraced by the steadfast support, comforting guidance, and unwavering solace offered by his devoted inner circle of friends. They stood by him, providing the strength, positivity and reassurance he needed to courageously navigate his fierce battle with cancer. The love and encouragement he bestowed upon his most cherished friends, was returned to him when he needed it the most. Bob is survived by his son Ernest Wilson, his brother David Wilson, his nephew Robert Wilson and his nieces Karen Griffin, Janet Wilson, and Melanie Wilson. He was predeceased by his father, David, his mother Virginia and his brother, William. A Celebration of Life for Bob will be held on Sunday, October 29, 2023, in the Presidio of San Francisco. For more information and details, please contact Stan S. at s.sotolof@comcast.net. This gathering will provide an opportunity for friends, family and colleagues to come together, share their stories and memories of Bob. Bob's decision to have his ashes spread at sea near the Farallone Islands in a private ceremony is a deeply personal and poignant choice. The Farallone Islands held a special significance in his life, and his final wish allows him to be reunited with a place he cherished. Contributions can be made to the organizations that held a special place in Bob's heart; Marine Mammal Center, Snow Leopard Conservancy, the Greater Farallones Association, Polar Bears International, and American Cetacean Society. Your support will help to continue and honor Bob's legacy and further the important work he dedicated his life to. Bob Wilson will be remembered as a remarkable individual who led an extraordinary life lived with unwavering purpose, a thirst for adventure, and the profound connections he cultivated with his wide circle of friends. His contributions to the world of conservation and his impact on those around him will never be forgotten. Bob's memory and indomitable spirit will live on through his loved ones and the countless lives he touched.